As pediatric occupational therapists, parents, or educators, one of our biggest responsibilities is helping children navigate big emotions, transitions, and social expectations. But instead of using “no” all day long, we can use gentle redirection phrases that guide behavior while still honoring the child’s feelings and autonomy.
In this post, I’m sharing bilingual redirection phrases in English and Spanish that can be used during daily routines, therapy sessions, and even in moments of dysregulation. These phrases are especially helpful for those working with bilingual families or Spanish-speaking children—and they help model respectful, clear communication across both languages.
Setting a Limit
English: “We don’t do that. Let’s try this instead.”
Español: “Eso no lo hacemos. Vamos a intentar esto mejor.”
This phrase sets a boundary while offering a positive alternative.
Offering a Choice
English: “Would you like to do it yourself or with my help?”
Español: “¿Quieres hacerlo tú o te ayudo yo?”
Giving choices builds confidence and prevents power struggles.
Acknowledging Feelings
English: “I see you’re upset. Let’s take a deep breath together.”
Español: “Veo que estás molesto(a). Respiremos juntos.”
Naming emotions helps kids feel seen and supported.
Encouraging Appropriate Play
English: “Toys are for playing gently.”
Español: “Los juguetes se usan con cuidado.”
A kind reminder that teaches care and respect for materials.
Redirecting Aggression
English: “You can use your words, not your hands.”
Español: “Usa tus palabras, no las manos.”
Promotes emotional expression and self-regulation.
Guiding Transitions
English: “In 2 minutes, it will be time to clean up.”
Español: “En 2 minutos, será hora de recoger.”
Prepping kids for change eases transitions and reduces meltdowns.
Reinforcing Boundaries
English: “That’s not safe. Let’s do something else.”
Español: “Eso no es seguro. Vamos a hacer otra cosa.”
Reframes “no” in a way that keeps the child engaged and safe.
Promoting Cooperation
English: “Let’s work together to clean up.”
Español: “Vamos a trabajar juntos para recoger.”
Encourages teamwork and models collaborative behavior.
Fostering Independence
English: “You can try first, and I’ll be here if you need help.”
Español: “Inténtalo tú primero, y estoy aquí si necesitas ayuda.”
Supports confidence while letting kids know they’re not alone.
Encouraging Calming Tools
English: “Let’s use our calm corner when we feel overwhelmed.”
Español: “Vamos al rincón tranquilo cuando nos sentimos abrumados.”
Gives children a tangible strategy for self-soothing.
Why Bilingual Phrasing Matters
Using both English and Spanish doesn’t just support language development—it shows cultural respect and helps kids feel seen in their identity. These redirection phrases provide structure, empathy, and empowerment, all while supporting behavior regulation in ways that are trauma-informed and neurodiversity-affirming.
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