Working with children as a pediatric occupational therapist often involves navigating a variety of emotional and behavioral challenges. Over time, I’ve developed a toolkit of strategies that are simple to implement yet highly effective in supporting emotional regulation and managing behaviors. Below, I’m sharing some of the techniques that have proven successful in my practice.
1. Using Timers for Smooth Transitions
For children who struggle with transitioning from one activity to the next, timers can be a game changer. Whether it’s moving from playtime to therapy or completing a task within a specific time frame, timers provide a visual and auditory cue that helps children understand and anticipate the change. This strategy reduces anxiety and resistance, making transitions smoother and more predictable.
2. Breathing Techniques for Calmness
Breathing exercises are powerful tools for helping children manage their emotions. Techniques like breathing mazes, yoga, or simply taking deep breaths can help children focus and calm down when they’re feeling overwhelmed. These exercises are easy to teach and can be incorporated into a child’s daily routine, providing a quick and effective way to regulate emotions.
3. Proprioceptive Input for Grounding
Proprioceptive activities involve heavy work that provides deep pressure input, which can be incredibly grounding for children. Using weighted toys, weighted blankets, or engaging in activities like joint compressions or pushing heavy objects can help children feel more secure and in control. These activities are especially useful for children who are prone to sensory overload or have difficulty with self-regulation.
4. Vestibular Input for Balance and Calm
Vestibular activities, such as light swinging, spinning, or exercises on a peanut ball, can help balance the nervous system and improve a child’s ability to regulate their emotions. These activities stimulate the vestibular system, which is crucial for balance and spatial orientation, and can have a calming effect on children who are hyperactive or easily agitated.
5. Verbal Cues for Behavior Management
When dealing with hitting or throwing behaviors, a simple verbal cue can sometimes be enough to deter the action. Exclaiming “ouch” or “that hurts me!” in response to aggressive behavior helps children understand the impact of their actions. This not only discourages the behavior but also teaches empathy and social awareness.
6. Emotional Regulation Cards for Understanding Feelings

Emotional regulation cards are a fantastic resource for helping children identify and express their emotions. By providing visual cues and simple explanations, these cards can assist children in understanding their feelings and learning how to cope with them in healthy ways. They are particularly effective when used in conjunction with other strategies, such as breathing exercises or proprioceptive activities.
Implementing these strategies in your practice can significantly enhance your ability to support children in managing their emotions and behaviors. Each child is unique, so it’s important to tailor these techniques to fit their individual needs. With consistency and patience, these simple strategies can make a big difference in helping children develop the emotional regulation skills they need to thrive.

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